We Will All Find Love One Day... ♥

We go through life searching for that one person who we can love unconditionally with no questions asked. There are many people we meet in our lives but the bottom line is there is only one person who can truly be our other half. We must face many trials in our search, but it is through these trials that gives us the strength to overcome the countless broken hearts and false hopes. Love is not something that can simply be found; love has to find you. It is only after we go through the abundance of heartaches God challenges us with that we are ready for what love can offer; it is only after our many failures with love that we will be able to truly appreciate that one person when they finally come into our lives. It may be a lifetime before God thinks we are ready but the wait will be well worth it so do not fret... love will always find its way. ♥ -Jessica Miller

Take Me There

Quote of the Day:

• The first time you fall in love it changes your life and no matter how hard you try, the feeling never goes away.

In Take Me There, Susane Colasanti focuses on three main characters: Two girls, Rhiannon and Nicole, and a guy, James. The novel is set in a school for design in New York City and it begins by introducing the three characters who have each recently become single. Rhiannon was dumped by her boyfriend Steve, and is relying on her two best friends, Nicole and James, to comfort her through it. Even though they are broken up, she still believes that her and Steve are meant to be together and spends most of the book trying to figure out how she can get back together with him. Nicole recently broke up with her boyfriend Danny, but she often wonders why she did it. Meanwhile, if this wasn't complicated enough, she also finds herself crushing on her math teacher. Nicole also has a secret from her past that requires her to attend weekly therapy sessions with her mother. James is the least affected by his recent break-up. He spends a lot of time focused on school, helping at home, and helping his elderly neighbor. The book follows the three as they each begin to understand what he or she really need in a relationship.

The book alternates between the three character's stories, and the author rehashes events through their eyes. In my opinion the book has a really good storyline but I would only reccomend it to teen girls such as myself. The reader watches as the girls learn lessons of love; Rhiannon realizes that she deserves better from a boy and that there's a certain boy in her life that provides that for her, and Nicole learns the importance of trust. All in all It was a very good read and I would definitely reccomend it but like I had said before I think it is a book written for teen girls who enoy the cute teenage romances.

I Wish Someone Would Write Me a Song... ♥

Quote of the Day:

• "Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweatpants, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'Thats her.'"

"I Will Write You A Song" Lyrics


I don't know how to make lots of money
I got debts that I'm trying to pay
I can't buy you nice things, like big diamond rings
But that don't mean much anyway
I can't give you the house you've been dreaming
If I could I would build it alone
I'd be out there all day, just hammering away
Make us a place of our own


I will write you a song
That's how you'll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you'll know from this song that I just can't go on without you


I don't know that I'd make a good soldier
I don't believe in being violent and cruel
I don't know how to fight, but I'll draw blood tonight
If somebody tries hurting you


I will write you a song
That's how you'll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you'll know from this song that I just can't go on without you


Now that it's out on the table (it's out on the table)
Both of us knew all along (knew all along)
I've got your loving and you've got my song


I don't know how to make lots of money
I don't know all the right things to do
I can't say where we'll go, but the one thing I know
Is how to be a good man to you
Until I die that's what I'll do


I will write you a song
That's how you'll know that my love is still strong
I will write you a song
And you'll know from this song that I just can't go on without
I will write you a song (I will write you a song)
That's how you'll know that my love is still strong (love is still strong)
I will write you a song
And you know from this song that I just can't go on without you


This song is one of my all time favorites and it is, hands down, my favorite song by Plain White T's.  The whole song is based on how much this guy truly loves this girl and the absolute devotion he shows for her.  He would literally do anything in his power to make her happy. He may not have all of the money in the world but he wants her to know that he will always love her no matter what they go through or where they end up. If you didn't know how to define true love before, this song is a perfect example;I swear this will be my wedding song when that day comes. ♥

No One Said Love Would Be Easy...

Quote of the Day:

• Love is everything it's cracked up to be…It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.

No one said love would be easy, in fact it's the farthest thing from it.  Sure relationships start out all lovey, dovey and everything is just absolutely perfect but it never stays that way.  Now I'm not saying you lose love for that person but the initial pizzazz will eventually where off and that's when the reality sinks in. After a while you will get annoyed with eachother and the fights will begin but there is no reason to fret; fighting is a part of a relationship and as long as you care enough about eachother you will get through them. There are certainly things you can do to avoid having an abundance of fights in a relationship though and the following are only a few of them.

Nurturing a relationship is the most important thing to do if you want to stay together. Learn to resolve fights and arguments by saying “Sorry.” Many find it hard to say this, though. It is important to understand that if you are wrong, admitting your mistake is the right thing to do. An argument doesn’t need a winner or a loser.

When in an argument, always avoid bringing up the past because it will add more hostility. It is best to remain calm and above all forgive and forget.  There will be many occasions when you and your boyfriend/girlfriend will not see things eye to eye. Learn to accept them as they are if you truly care about them and try to adjust.

Probably one of the mos important things to remember to do is to make sure you are consistantly showing that both of you still care about each other. The little things  you do for each other could be the things that help strengthen your relationship the most and limit the fighting to a minimum.

What Is Love?

Quote of the Day:

• "Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." - Mark Twain

Seriously, what is it? You say you love a person but what does that really mean? Sure there's familial love and love for your friends but what does it mean to actually love a person; a boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife? Well here's what I think:

Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable and it keeps not record of being wronged. love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful and endures through every circumstance. Love is unconditional...

Love is when you really care about someone and they mean the world to you. It's when you would do anything to make them happy; it's a state of unselfishness. It's when you smile at the sight of them and your stomach fills up with butterflies. It's when you hear their name and light up. It's when you can't go a day without thinking of them and every moment your not with that person you are thinking of them.  It's when you feel complete and you would never be happier with anyone else.

What do you think?

 

40 Things Guys Should Know About Girls

Quote of the Day:

• "The real lover is the man who can thrill you by kissing your forehead or smiling into your eyes or just staring into space." -Marilyn Monroe

A friend of mine sent me this list in a text earlier and it absolutely made my day! The girls will definitely get a laugh out of this one and guys, you should probably take some notes.

Things Guys Should Know About Girls

1. Don’t ever lie to us; we always find out.
2. We don’t enjoy talking dirty to you as much as you enjoy listening.
3. Don’t say you understand when you don’t.
4. Girls are pretty, but yours is the Prettiest!
5. You don’t have PMS; don’t act like you know what it’s like.
6. Saying something sweet might get you off the hook; doing something sweet will always get you off the hook.
7. If you talk about having a big dick; we know you don’t.
8. Size does matter, but only to hoes; not girls that want relationships.
9. We don’t like it when you act like Mr. Big.
10. A system in your car only impresses your homeboys not us.
11. No matter what you say, your ex-girlfriend is a hoe.
12. It’s good to be sensitive, sometimes.
13. If you did something wrong or even if you didn’t, apologize.
14. Be spontaneous; dinner and a movie won’t always cut it.
15. We are self-conscious by nature; we can’t help it.
16. We are Drama queens.
17. Fashion police do exist.
18. You're sexy when you're shaving, fixing things, wearing a white T-shirt and jeans, driving, holding a baby. 
19. We absolutely DO NOT care about monster trucks, car systems, paintball, or anything else you and your friends talk about.
20. Hugs and kisses must be given at all times.
21.We don’t shave our legs everyday so get over it.
22. Don’t make bets about us; we always find out.
23. Shave; no matter how cool you think your goatee or beard or mustache looks, we hate it.
24. Even if you think it is cool to burp, fart, or emitt other strange gases from your body, it is not.
25. Don’t compare our breasts with Pamela Anderson’s; hers are fake, just remember that. ( you have a better shot at ours than you ever will with hers)
26. It is not cool to shoot snot rockets.
27. We are beautiful at all times.
28. We will always think we are fat, so humor us and tell us we aren’t.
29. You can shoot hoops, score a goal, knock down big fat guys, and hit a little baseball with a stick, so why the hell can’t you piss in the toilet and not on it.
30. We love it when you hug us from behind and whisper in our ear.
31. You should never tell us what to do.
32. We're in heaven when you hold our hand.
33. We should eventually get three things from you: a stuffed animal, one of your sweatshirts or hoodies, and a really pretty piece of jewelry.
34. Memorize our birthday. You forget our birthday and you're basically screwed for life... Not gonna lie.
35. We like it when you are willing to have an actual relationship, not just a one-night stand. We don't like pimps or players, just guys who like ONE girl only.
36. We like you to kiss our hand and cheeks and forehead, not just shove your tongue down our throats. We do like to breathe.
37. We LOVE it when you get nervous around us. It's adorable! Don't think you have to be Mr. Cool Guy all the time.
38. If we slap you hard, you deserved it.
39. NEVER say any girl looks hot when you're around us, even a movie star. We pretend it doesn't bother us, but you should hear what we tell our friends.
40. Most importantly: we are always right; so don’t forget it.

"Oh, Is It Love?'

Quote of the Day:

• After we kissed, all I could think about was your lips. -Author Unknown

"Oh, It Is Love" Lyrics

Oh, it is love
From the first time I set my eyes up on yours
Thinking oh, is it love?

Oh dear
It's been hardly a moment
And you are already missed
There is still a bit of your skin
That I've yet to have kissed
Oh say please do not go
But you know, oh, you know that I must
Oh say I love you so
But you know, oh, you know you can trust
We'll be holding hands once again
All our broken plans I will mend
I will hold you tight so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my hand into yours
Thinking oh is it love?

Oh, dear, it's been hardly three days
And I'm longing to feel your embrace.
There are several days
Until I can see your sweet face.
Oh say, wouldn't you like to be older and married with me
Oh say, wouldn't it be nice to know right now that we'll be
Someday holding hands in the end
All our broken plans will have been
I will kiss you soft so you know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking oh is it love?

Your heart may long for love that is more near
So when I'm gone these words will be here
To ease every fear
And dry up every tear
And make it very clear
I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking oh is it love?

Oh it is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking oh is it love?

I kiss you and I know
It is love from the first
Time I pressed my lips against yours
Thinking oh is it love?

This song, I must say is one of my favorites.  It has to be one of the cutest love songs I have come across and it brings a smile to may face every time I hear it. From the lyrics you can see that it is one of those mushy gushy love songs but its meaning is still absolutely adorable.  From what the lyrics say I gather that it is basically about a boy that is completely head-over-heels for this girl. Songs like this are a rarity now-a-days and gives hope to all of the hopeless romantics still looking for love such as myself… ♥